Being a young adult, I can relate
to a lot of things that were talked about in these chapters. Young adults are
in their peak condition and should be able to do strenuous work and activities
without limitations or worry about chronic illness (pg. 210). The way that this
is possible is based on the lifestyle you choose to live. I surprise myself on
how I function with working full time being a personal trainer and go to school
after that. It’s a miracle what your body can do. Having a proper diet is so
important, especially being at the age of a young adult. It will help prevent
the risk of heart disease or cancer, that are the two most prevalent diseases seen
in America (pg. 210). Middle adults have more concerns about health and should get
tested for preventative reasons (pg. 232). Physical fitness is obviously very important,
and needs to go hand in hand with proper nutrition. Studies show that for
women, by increasing physical activity by only two and a half hours per week
can add months to their lives (pg. 211). Moderate exercise, such as walking,
can help reduce the risk of stroke, osteoporosis, cancer and diabetes. Being a
personal trainer, it blows my mind how many people I know who don’t see the
benefits of exercise. I see so many people younger than me who are obese and
have over 50% body fat. There are so many easy tasks people can do to get away
from these risks, but some people don’t understand how easy it really can be. Middle
adults also have to worry about their physical appearance, such as skin tone,
hair, fingernails and teeth (pg. 232). Being healthy can affect the outside
appearance as well.
Alcohol and tobacco use is very prevalent for
young adults. On a personal level, I’d say 90% of my friends smoke. Smoking is
the leading preventable cause of death in America (pg. 212). Smoking can lead
to cancer, lung disease, and heart disease, but people still justify a reason
to pay for that. Binge drinking is commonly seen in middle aged adults as well.
From stress from work and life, we need to find better outlets to deal with
them. Honestly, being healthy is easy, you just have to want to do it.
Cognitive development
as a young adult in important as well. We have life experiences, find our
interests, and have the urge to want to research more (pg. 214). Piaget says
young adults generally possess more knowledge than adolescents, especially in
areas of interest. Middle adults have more life experiences and acquire more
knowledge and are able to transfer that into novel situations (pg. 241). Experience
can be helpful to solve more problems readily. Daniel Levinson explains how
individuation plays an important role in young adults. We develop a separate and
special personality derived less and less form our parents and more from our
own behavior (pg. 218). I can see that so much now and it shocks me how much me
and my mom are not alike and have completely different interests and outlooks
on certain things. I think It’s very interesting how we all get our own
personality, and really become our special individual.
With the personality we find, we
use that to build friendships. Friends are important because they provide a
source of support and we actually get to pick who we want to be around (pg.
220). Good friendships tend to be formed in adult ages, but may trickle away as
we get into middle adulthood. Friendships become fewer, but more precious and
we have less intereaction with them and more with our spouse and siblings (pg.
246). It is sad to see this, but we get caught up in our own lives and families.
I hope to always keep my friends I have now, and make it part of my life to not
let distance come between us.
Hi Anne,
ReplyDeleteYou are right that young adults should be in their peak physical condition and able to do strenuous work and activities without limitations or worry about chronic illness. Unfortunately it appears that these injuries and illnesses are becoming more and more common. I'm sure you notice it with your work and in physical education. You also mentioned that many of your friends smoke. I would say that our education system and anti-smoking campaigns work pretty hard to suppress smoking in movies and on tv. Why do you think smoking is still so common?
Phil
Glad you made a point to emphasize quality over quantity with friendships. Erickson's intimacy vs isolation often times relates to finding a spouse during this stage however the theory also lends itself well to creating a closeness or intimacy amongst friends as well.
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